"inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users—especially younger hobbyists—simply choose not to climb.
In 2026, the debate over abrasive behavior in niche communities like Synchr is central to whether these "hobbyist" networks can survive another decade. Critics and observers point to several ways this behavior actively drives a
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I was talking to chat gp and got a pretty good response to a
question, I asked.
consequence is a shrinking pool of new talent. In 2026, many
open-source projects are realizing that community management
is as important as code; without a welcoming front, even the best
software (like Synchronet) risks becoming a "digital ghost town"
as the older generation of sysops retires. The Bottom Line: While
their behavior ensures that only the most technically resilient
users remain, it significantly limits the growth of the BBS hobby.
For many in 2026, the trade-offÄtechnical purity at the cost of new
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On 22 Jan 2026, Mark Meadows Jr said the following...
"inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding.
When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking
tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many usersÄespecially younger hobbyistsÄsimply choose not to climb.
since they're probably not here i'll take this opportunity to
respond:
I was talking to chat gp and got a pretty good response to a question, I asked
1. High Barrier to Entry
Newcomers in 2026 are accustomed to modern developer communities (like those o
Discord, GitHub, or StackOverflow) that have shifted toward "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users.especially younger hobbyists.simply choose not to climb.
"inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users.especially younger hobbyists.simply choose not to climb.
since they're probably not here i'll take this opportunity to respond:
you sound like a big baby
Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-
"inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When
figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many usersâÇöespecially younger hobbyists simply choose not to climb.
Friendly Echos: New networks are forming with strict
"no-harassment" policies specifically to provide a space where
beginnes can ask basic questions without being told to "RTFM."
Friendly Echos: New networks are forming with strict "no-harassment" policies specifically to provide a space where beginnes can ask basic questions without being told to "RTFM."
Which echoes are these?
mark probably cries about being mocked on facebook and reddit too.
i'm mro and i've stayed up until 3-4am when i have to get up at 6am for work and helped people get their bbses working. i've spent my time and my money to help the bbsing culture. for around 29 years to various degrees.
Jas Hud wrote to Mark Meadows Jr <=-
you have to be stupid to not understand that. someone that uses
chatgpt for answers is stupid.
Jas Hud wrote to Alexander Grotewohl <=-
i'm mro and i've stayed up until 3-4am when i have to get up at 6am for work and helped people get their bbses working. i've spent my time and
my money to help the bbsing culture. for around 29 years to various degrees.
mark probably cries about being mocked on facebook and reddit too.
and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce,
or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social
Interesting who it singled out first there. :D
Also, from someone who tried Mystic (and tried to report an issue),
I can tell you that you can get plenty of blunt, mocking, and just
unhelpful feedback going that route, too.
respond:
you sound like a big baby
To be accurate, it sounds like ChatGPT was the one being a big baby.
;)
Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-
"inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding.
When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking
I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That
wasn't necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a
vendetta than a treatise.
there was some other guy that called my bbs too, asking me to delete
one of my users and saying i should moderate or something..
even got told "i'm part of the problem with modern bbsing" lol.
i'd prefer to help too but i see the interactions people have with
DM..
d) do this and get back to me ?) i did the same thing again and it
didn't work d) but did you do the thing? ?) i restarted my wifi
router and flipped my rain stick over a few times and now it works d)
...
A spoonful of honey goes much farther than a cup of vinegar. You know this but I'm reminding you anyway.Yes, sometimes some posters can scare users away.
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Jas Hud wrote to Mark Meadows Jr <=-
you have to be stupid to not understand that. someone that uses
chatgpt for answers is stupid.
You can reply to someone without insulting them.
A spoonful of honey goes much farther than a cup of vinegar. You know
this but I'm reminding you anyway.
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Jas Hud wrote to Alexander Grotewohl <=-
i'm mro and i've stayed up until 3-4am when i have to get up at 6am
for work and helped people get their bbses working. i've spent my
time and my money to help the bbsing culture. for around 29 years to various degrees.
You also like to tell off people who are experts in their field by
insisting they're wrong and you know better than they do. That
behavior doesn't endure you to anyone.
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Re: Re: getting and keeping new users By: Sean Dennis to Jas Hud on
Fri Jan 23 2026 09:10 pm
A spoonful of honey goes much farther than a cup of vinegar. You know this but I'm reminding you anyway.
Yes, sometimes some posters can scare users away.
I believe a while back i offered to wipe the slate clean and they refused.
Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-
"inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users...especially younger hobbyists simply choose not to climb.
I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn't
necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
a treatise.
I don't equate being told to check the documentation to harassment,
don't know if you intended that.
i disagree. i have not seen one person scared away from bbsing by a another person posting ever in my entire time in bbsing and i'm almost 50.
Dumas Walker wrote to KURT WEISKE <=-
I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn't
necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
a treatise.
I am pretty sure that ChatGPT named them. It would appear that Mark
just copied over the ChatGPT output.
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On 24 Jan 26 00:01:07, Jas Hud said the following to Sean Dennis:
I believe a while back i offered to wipe the slate clean and they refuse
Aww.
Nick
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Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-
"inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users...especially younger hobbyists simply choose not to climb.
I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn't
necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
a treatise.
I am pretty sure that ChatGPT named them. It would appear that Mark just copied over the ChatGPT output.
I suspect ChatGPT is talking about FSXnet here. SFnet also has such policies, written by its original host, but it doesn't really have
any tech echoes to speak of.
I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn'
necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
a treatise.
I am pretty sure that ChatGPT named them. It would appear that Mark just copied over the ChatGPT output.
you can just as easily feed it messages to make it behave like a cat
girl or some other nonsense. maybe that's what he had open in
another browser tab.
My buddy is obsessed with that shit and what i've learned is it will
always tell you what you want to hear. Especially when you interact
with it aside from using it as a tool. It keeps people with low
self esteems coming back for more by telling them their ideas are
great and other BS.
There is that gal who got mad because I told her I prefered spending my tim with horses than trying to get a woman these days. She threw a tantrum and then I never heard about her. Maybe that counts.
Well... there was the Jerry Springer episode about a guy who married a horse.
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Re: Re: getting and keeping new users By: Nick Andre to Richard
Falken on Sat Jan 24 2026 11:04 pm
Well... there was the Jerry Springer episode about a guy who married
a horse.
That sounds a bit... extreme.
Which echoes are these?
Never heard of these either... sounds like BS.
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