• getting and keeping new users

    From Mark Meadows Jr@1:103/705 to ALL on Thu Jan 22 15:01:39 2026
    I was talking to chat gp and got a pretty good response to a question, I asked.


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    In 2026, the debate over abrasive behavior in niche communities like Synchronet is central to whether these "hobbyist" networks can survive another decade. Critics and observers point to several ways this behavior actively drives away new users:
    1. High Barrier to Entry
    Newcomers in 2026 are accustomed to modern developer communities (like those on Discord, GitHub, or StackOverflow) that have shifted toward "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users—especially younger hobbyists—simply choose not to climb.
    2. The "Knowledge Silo" Effect
    When developers are perceived as jerks, users often stop asking public questions to avoid ridicule. This results in:

    Hidden Troubleshooting: Solutions happen in private chats rather than public echos, so the "public knowledge base" stops growing.
    Stagnant Innovation: Potential contributors who might have written new JS modules or door games for Synchronet often abandon the project if their first interaction is negative.

    3. Fragmentation of the Community
    The perceived rudeness has led to a split in the BBS scene. By 2026, many new sysops are migrating to "alternative" networks or platforms:

    Friendly Echos: New networks are forming with strict "no-harassment" policies specifically to provide a space where beginners can ask basic questions without being told to "RTFM."
    Discord/Telegram: Much of the active BBS discussion has moved to modern chat apps where real-time moderation is easier and the culture is generally less abrasive than the traditional DOVE-Net or FidoNet echos.

    4. Support Fatigue vs. Growth
    While these developers argue that they are protecting their time from "lazy" users, the unintended consequence is a shrinking pool of new talent. In 2026, many open-source projects are realizing that community management is as important as code; without a welcoming front, even the best software (like Synchronet) risks becoming a "digital ghost town" as the older generation of sysops retires.
    The Bottom Line: While their behavior ensures that only the most technically resilient users remain, it significantly limits the growth of the BBS hobby. For many in 2026, the trade-off—technical purity at the cost of new blood—is seen as a slow path to obsolescence.
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  • From Alexander Grotewohl@1:120/616 to Mark Meadows Jr on Thu Jan 22 19:44:38 2026
    On 22 Jan 2026, Mark Meadows Jr said the following...

    "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users—especially younger hobbyists—simply choose not to climb.

    since they're probably not here i'll take this opportunity to respond:

    you sound like a big baby

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  • From Nick Andre@1:229/426 to Mark Meadows Jr on Thu Jan 22 21:37:45 2026
    On 22 Jan 26 15:01:39, Mark Meadows Jr said the following to All:

    In 2026, the debate over abrasive behavior in niche communities like Synchr is central to whether these "hobbyist" networks can survive another decade. Critics and observers point to several ways this behavior actively drives a

    Uhhhhh "what" debate?

    If you don't want to be offended, stop looking for ways to be offended.

    Nick

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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Mark Meadows Jr on Fri Jan 23 03:10:55 2026
    To: Mark Meadows Jr
    Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Mark Meadows Jr to ALL on Thu Jan 22 2026 03:01 pm

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    I was talking to chat gp and got a pretty good response to a
    question, I asked.

    that's because it used AI to provide an answer YOU WANTED.

    consequence is a shrinking pool of new talent. In 2026, many
    open-source projects are realizing that community management
    is as important as code; without a welcoming front, even the best
    software (like Synchronet) risks becoming a "digital ghost town"
    as the older generation of sysops retires. The Bottom Line: While
    their behavior ensures that only the most technically resilient
    users remain, it significantly limits the growth of the BBS hobby.
    For many in 2026, the trade-offÄtechnical purity at the cost of new

    nobody wants bbses. that's what limits the hobby.
    you have to be stupid to not understand that. someone that uses
    chatgpt for answers is stupid.
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Alexander Grotewohl on Fri Jan 23 03:13:12 2026
    To: Alexander Grotewohl
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Alexander Grotewohl to Mark Meadows Jr on Thu Jan 22 2026 07:44 pm

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    On 22 Jan 2026, Mark Meadows Jr said the following...

    "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding.
    When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking
    tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many usersÄespecially younger hobbyistsÄsimply choose not to climb.

    since they're probably not here i'll take this opportunity to
    respond:

    i'm mro and i've stayed up until 3-4am when i have to get up at 6am for work and helped people get their bbses working. i've spent my time and my money
    to help the bbsing culture. for around 29 years to various degrees.

    mark probably cries about being mocked on facebook and reddit too.
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  • From Dumas Walker@1:2320/105 to MARK MEADOWS JR on Fri Jan 23 10:07:41 2026
    I was talking to chat gp and got a pretty good response to a question, I asked

    1. High Barrier to Entry
    Newcomers in 2026 are accustomed to modern developer communities (like those o
    Discord, GitHub, or StackOverflow) that have shifted toward "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users.especially younger hobbyists.simply choose not to climb.

    Interesting who it singled out first there. :D

    I don't necessarily agree with most of its assessment, though. I think the barrier would be based more on the aptitude of the user in question.

    Also, from someone who tried Mystic (and tried to report an issue), I can
    tell you that you can get plenty of blunt, mocking, and just unhelpful
    feedback going that route, too.


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  • From Dumas Walker@1:2320/105 to ALEXANDER GROTEWOHL on Fri Jan 23 10:07:41 2026
    "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users.especially younger hobbyists.simply choose not to climb.

    since they're probably not here i'll take this opportunity to respond:

    you sound like a big baby

    To be accurate, it sounds like ChatGPT was the one being a big baby. ;)


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  • From Kurt Weiske@1:218/700 to Mark Meadows Jr on Fri Jan 23 07:21:54 2026
    Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-

    "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When
    figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many usersâÇöespecially younger hobbyists simply choose not to climb.

    I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn't
    necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
    a treatise.

    Friendly Echos: New networks are forming with strict
    "no-harassment" policies specifically to provide a space where
    beginnes can ask basic questions without being told to "RTFM."

    Which echoes are these?

    The one platform I can speak to is Synchronet. There was a
    comprehensive static documentation system that was constantly updated,
    and now a wiki with several people contributing. Most newbie questions
    posted online could be resolved by searching the wiki. And, most new
    sysops ask the same questions which, I could imagine, gets tiresome.

    I don't equate being told to check the documentation to harassment,
    don't know if you intended that.

    I'm reminded of Fidonet's rules from way back when -

    1. Don't be excessively annoying.
    2. Don't be excessively annoyed.

    It's just a hobby.



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  • From Nick Andre@1:229/426 to Kurt Weiske on Fri Jan 23 10:47:11 2026
    On 23 Jan 26 07:21:54, Kurt Weiske said the following to Mark Meadows Jr:

    Friendly Echos: New networks are forming with strict "no-harassment" policies specifically to provide a space where beginnes can ask basic questions without being told to "RTFM."

    Which echoes are these?

    Never heard of these either... sounds like BS.

    Nick

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  • From Alexander Grotewohl@1:120/616 to Jas Hud on Fri Jan 23 13:31:31 2026
    On 23 Jan 2026, Jas Hud said the following...

    mark probably cries about being mocked on facebook and reddit too.

    there was some other guy that called my bbs too, asking me to delete one of my users and saying i should moderate or something.. even got told "i'm part of the problem with modern bbsing" lol.

    i duno where these people are coming from but it's kind of annoying

    i'm mro and i've stayed up until 3-4am when i have to get up at 6am for work and helped people get their bbses working. i've spent my time and my money to help the bbsing culture. for around 29 years to various degrees.

    i'd prefer to help too but i see the interactions people have with DM..

    d) do this and get back to me
    ?) i did the same thing again and it didn't work
    d) but did you do the thing?
    ?) i restarted my wifi router and flipped my rain stick over a few times and now it works
    d) ...

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  • From Sean Dennis@1:18/200 to Jas Hud on Fri Jan 23 21:10:54 2026
    Jas Hud wrote to Mark Meadows Jr <=-

    you have to be stupid to not understand that. someone that uses
    chatgpt for answers is stupid.

    You can reply to someone without insulting them.

    A spoonful of honey goes much farther than a cup of vinegar. You know this
    but I'm reminding you anyway.

    -- Sean

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  • From Sean Dennis@1:18/200 to Jas Hud on Fri Jan 23 21:38:40 2026
    Jas Hud wrote to Alexander Grotewohl <=-

    i'm mro and i've stayed up until 3-4am when i have to get up at 6am for work and helped people get their bbses working. i've spent my time and
    my money to help the bbsing culture. for around 29 years to various degrees.

    You also like to tell off people who are experts in their field by
    insisting they're wrong and you know better than they do. That behavior doesn't endure you to anyone.

    For all the help you profess to espouse, you ruin it with all the vitriol you spew.

    mark probably cries about being mocked on facebook and reddit too.

    Proof of the point I'm making. Yet you publicly wonder aloud why people don't like you.

    TL;DR: if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it in here.

    -- Sean

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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Dumas Walker on Fri Jan 23 20:38:31 2026
    To: Dumas Walker
    Re: getting and keeping new u
    By: Dumas Walker to MARK MEADOWS JR on Fri Jan 23 2026 10:07 am

    and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce,
    or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social

    Interesting who it singled out first there. :D

    Because i'm awesome. all my haters i've owned in various ways and their
    asses are still bleeding.

    Also, from someone who tried Mystic (and tried to report an issue),
    I can tell you that you can get plenty of blunt, mocking, and just
    unhelpful feedback going that route, too.

    I don't think anybody gets unhelpful feedback or mocking when asking for help in bbs msg networks. Even the people that are dicks, like gamgee might be somewhate helpful at first. is that guy evne still around? havent seen his posts in forever.

    I will however mock anybody who uses chatgpt to defend a point or create a
    msg post.
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Dumas Walker on Fri Jan 23 20:43:15 2026
    To: Dumas Walker
    Re: Re: getting and keeping n
    By: Dumas Walker to ALEXANDER GROTEWOHL on Fri Jan 23 2026 10:07 am

    respond:

    you sound like a big baby

    To be accurate, it sounds like ChatGPT was the one being a big baby.
    ;)


    yeah but he fed chatgpt a leading question.
    so he was still behind the wheel.

    i asked grok a non retarded non leading question and got a good result.

    i asked "why aren't new people getting involved in bbs softwares. I mean bulletin board softwares that used to be old but are still being developed
    for the internet"



    Bulletin Board Systems (BBS) originated in the late 1970s as dial-up services for messaging, file sharing, and games, but they largely faded in the 1990s
    as the internet rose. While some modern adaptations exist (e.g., telnet-based systems like Synchronet or Mystic BBS, or hybrids blending retro aesthetics with web tech), involvement from new developers and users remains low. Based on discussions in online communities and historical analyses, here are the
    key reasons:


    1. Shift to Modern Alternatives
    BBS functionality has been superseded by more accessible platforms like Reddit, Discord, forums (e.g., phpBB), and social media. These offer similar features- threaded discussions, media sharing, and communities-but with
    better scalability, multimedia support, and no need for specialized clients
    or dial-up/telnet. Historical accounts note that BBS declined sharply in the mid-1990s due to services like AOL and CompuServe, which supported more simultaneous users without hardware limits. Today, why build on BBS when
    tools like Discourse or even Mastodon provide modern, open-source
    equivalents?


    2. Niche and Nostalgic Appeal
    Modern BBS development often caters to retro enthusiasts rather than broad audiences. Communities like r/bbs on Reddit highlight that much of the interest comes from veterans reminiscing about the 80s/90s era, with
    questions about why software hasn't "evolved" to include modern graphics or sounds. New people aren't drawn in because it's seen as a hobbyist relic, not a cutting-edge field. For instance, ongoing projects like new hybrid BBS software blend old and new tech, but they're shared in small Facebook groups for "BBS fans," limiting exposure.


    3. Technical and Accessibility Barriers
    BBS software typically relies on outdated protocols (e.g., telnet, ANSI art) that don't integrate well with current web standards or mobile devices. Developers note compatibility issues, like finding telnet clients that handle PC-ANSI properly on modern hardware. New coders prefer stacks like
    JavaScript, React, or cloud services, which are more employable and easier to learn. Older BBS codebases (e.g., MajorBBS or Worldgroup) are often treated
    as abandonware, with calls to open-source them unmet, deterring
    contributions.


    4. Lack of Visibility and Education
    BBS isn't part of mainstream tech education or hype cycles. Younger
    developers focus on AI, web3, or app dev, where jobs and funding abound. Forums like phpBB, a spiritual successor to BBS, are perceived as "dead" by former contributors due to inactivity and lack of fresh involvement. Without marketing or viral appeal, new talent doesn't discover it-contrast this with how GitHub trends boost projects in other areas.


    5. Community and Economic Factors
    The ecosystem is small and aging, with sysops (system operators) retiring and few replacements. Atari or Macintosh BBS threads show evolution stalled decades ago, tied to specific hardware. There's little economic incentive;
    BBS isn't monetizable like SaaS tools. Broader software dev trends, like resistance to outdated practices or focus on maintenance over innovation, compound this.
    That said, pockets of activity persist-e.g., new multi-platform BBS projects in 2026 still pop up in niche groups. If you're interested in getting involved, check communities like r/bbs or BBS-focused Facebook groups for entry points.

    --snip--

    you notice it gave good feedback instead of blaming people for creating a 'learning curve' by responses. also if people want to know how to set
    things up they can read the docs. i can count on one hand how many times
    i've had to ask for help in 26 years with synchronet.
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Kurt Weiske on Fri Jan 23 20:45:07 2026
    To: Kurt Weiske
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Kurt Weiske to Mark Meadows Jr on Fri Jan 23 2026 07:21 am

    Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-

    "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding.
    When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking

    I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That
    wasn't necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a
    vendetta than a treatise.

    i think this guy got into stuff with all of us on reddit.
    i think he fed the names into chatgpt with his question.
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Alexander Grotewohl on Fri Jan 23 20:51:23 2026
    To: Alexander Grotewohl
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Alexander Grotewohl to Jas Hud on Fri Jan 23 2026 01:31 pm


    there was some other guy that called my bbs too, asking me to delete
    one of my users and saying i should moderate or something..
    even got told "i'm part of the problem with modern bbsing" lol.

    it's like why moderate? people can just not interact.
    censorship is wrong and in the end what you have will not be great.

    i only agree in censorship if someone is really not a member of the community and are attacking the networks. for example we have had some crazies over
    the years who flood msg networks and create dumplicate accounts just to disrupt everything.

    i'd prefer to help too but i see the interactions people have with
    DM..

    d) do this and get back to me ?) i did the same thing again and it
    didn't work d) but did you do the thing? ?) i restarted my wifi
    router and flipped my rain stick over a few times and now it works d)
    ...

    I've seen people get real bad help on their irc network.
    i'm not sure if those people had a history of requesting support in a bad
    way.

    what i have seen is something like what you said.

    in the end it was operator error and they did something wrong and didn't
    check on it like they were told. they lied about what they did all along and fixed it and won't say what fixed it.

    That's why i just would remote desktop people and fix their issues. its stopped asking 20 questions and finding out that they did something wrong and didn't do what the people asked them to do. doing it for them made it a lot quicker with less headache for everyone. then in a few months they would
    stop running a bbs :D
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  • From Matt Munson@1:103/705 to Sean Dennis on Fri Jan 23 21:35:41 2026
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Sean Dennis to Jas Hud on Fri Jan 23 2026 09:10 pm

    A spoonful of honey goes much farther than a cup of vinegar. You know this but I'm reminding you anyway.
    Yes, sometimes some posters can scare users away.
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Sean Dennis on Fri Jan 23 23:52:03 2026
    To: Sean Dennis
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Sean Dennis to Jas Hud on Fri Jan 23 2026 09:10 pm

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    Jas Hud wrote to Mark Meadows Jr <=-

    you have to be stupid to not understand that. someone that uses
    chatgpt for answers is stupid.

    You can reply to someone without insulting them.

    A spoonful of honey goes much farther than a cup of vinegar. You know
    this but I'm reminding you anyway.


    Sorry but this guy was wasn't being sincere in his post.

    Also if someone believes chatgpt can analyze what we post on msg networks and post something reliable, they are just pain stupid. They dont HAVE to be stupid; they are being stupid by choice. AI is not a notable source of information.
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Sean Dennis on Sat Jan 24 00:01:07 2026
    To: Sean Dennis
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Sean Dennis to Jas Hud on Fri Jan 23 2026 09:38 pm

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    Jas Hud wrote to Alexander Grotewohl <=-

    i'm mro and i've stayed up until 3-4am when i have to get up at 6am
    for work and helped people get their bbses working. i've spent my
    time and my money to help the bbsing culture. for around 29 years to various degrees.

    You also like to tell off people who are experts in their field by
    insisting they're wrong and you know better than they do. That
    behavior doesn't endure you to anyone.

    I don't know better than anybody and I don't care about anybody. Never in my mind do I think i'm better than another person. That's not how my mind works.
    I worry about myself until it affects me.

    Those people you talk about are probably not experts. Everyone is ignorant and people get slow and sloppy.

    For me, setting up networks, running bbses and setting up fidonet isnt hard. I've even fixed multiple people's fidonet setups even though i was rusty and don't know as much about it as other people claim to. yet my shit works and theirs didn't.

    I have no interest in IT anymore but I know plenty about it. I've taken practice tests/courses for certs at work during downtime for those various certs and most of it seems common sense to me. they had them in our cornerstone.

    IT seems like a boring career to do and i know a lot of people who work in
    it. I like to use my mind and my body.

    and regarding my posts, I'm not out to make any friends. But if someone's posting shit about me and being nasty, if you dig far enough back i think i'm in the right most of the time. but who really cares.

    we are just pixels on the screen to eachtoher.

    if you're talking about nick and gamgee. they're just fun to make mad.
    the way they go on and on. they are good entertainment.

    I believe a while back i offered to wipe the slate clean and they refused.
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Matt Munson on Sat Jan 24 02:00:08 2026
    To: Matt Munson
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Matt Munson to Sean Dennis on Fri Jan 23 2026 09:35 pm

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users By: Sean Dennis to Jas Hud on
    Fri Jan 23 2026 09:10 pm

    A spoonful of honey goes much farther than a cup of vinegar. You know this but I'm reminding you anyway.

    Yes, sometimes some posters can scare users away.


    i disagree. i have not seen one person scared away from bbsing by a another person posting ever in my entire time in bbsing and i'm almost 50.

    if people want to be a bbs user they will be one. if people want to be a bbs sysop they will.
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  • From Nick Andre@1:229/426 to Jas Hud on Sat Jan 24 07:08:16 2026
    On 24 Jan 26 00:01:07, Jas Hud said the following to Sean Dennis:

    I believe a while back i offered to wipe the slate clean and they refused.

    Aww.

    Nick

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  • From Dumas Walker@1:2320/105 to KURT WEISKE on Sat Jan 24 10:37:16 2026
    Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-

    "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users...especially younger hobbyists simply choose not to climb.

    I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn't
    necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
    a treatise.

    I am pretty sure that ChatGPT named them. It would appear that Mark just copied over the ChatGPT output.


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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Kurt Weiske on Sat Jan 24 05:07:53 2026
    To: Kurt Weiske
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Kurt Weiske to Mark Meadows Jr on Fri Jan 23 2026 07:21 am


    I don't equate being told to check the documentation to harassment,
    don't know if you intended that.


    there was a guy on dovenet asking for help about some basic stuff.

    I said you should check out the documentation, because unlike a lot of bbs softwares, synchronet has some pretty good documentation. you can look at it and follow along while you try what you are doing. I said it in that exact way.

    this is a new guy, never been around.

    this shithead then goes on reddit and starts a thread saying what is up with this mro guy, he told me RTFM (which i never say rtfm) why am i such an asshole. a bunch of people defended me actually and then he deleted his thread.

    then he disappeared forever.
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  • From Richard Falken@1:135/115 to Jas Hud on Sat Jan 24 10:52:38 2026
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Jas Hud to Matt Munson on Sat Jan 24 2026 02:00 am


    i disagree. i have not seen one person scared away from bbsing by a another person posting ever in my entire time in bbsing and i'm almost 50.

    There is that gal who got mad because I told her I prefered spending my time with horses than trying to get a woman these days. She threw a tantrum and then I never heard about her. Maybe that counts.


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  • From Kurt Weiske@1:218/700 to Dumas Walker on Sat Jan 24 09:59:20 2026
    Dumas Walker wrote to KURT WEISKE <=-

    I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn't
    necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
    a treatise.

    I am pretty sure that ChatGPT named them. It would appear that Mark
    just copied over the ChatGPT output.

    Yeah, but Mark put his name on it.



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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Nick Andre on Sat Jan 24 12:15:32 2026
    To: Nick Andre
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Nick Andre to Jas Hud on Sat Jan 24 2026 07:08 am

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    On 24 Jan 26 00:01:07, Jas Hud said the following to Sean Dennis:

    I believe a while back i offered to wipe the slate clean and they refuse

    Aww.

    Nick


    **makes heart gesture with hands for Nick**
    atreyuuuuuuuuuu!!
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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Dumas Walker on Sat Jan 24 12:16:24 2026
    To: Dumas Walker
    Re: Re: getting and keeping n
    By: Dumas Walker to KURT WEISKE on Sat Jan 24 2026 10:37 am

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    Mark Meadows Jr wrote to ALL <=-

    "inclusive" documentation and beginner-friendly onboarding. When figures like mro, Deuce, or echicken use a blunt or mocking tone, it creates a steep "social learning curve" that many users...especially younger hobbyists simply choose not to climb.

    I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn't
    necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
    a treatise.

    I am pretty sure that ChatGPT named them. It would appear that Mark just copied over the ChatGPT output.



    I would like to see the original question :D



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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Dumas Walker on Sat Jan 24 12:18:45 2026
    To: Dumas Walker
    Re: Re: getting and keeping n
    By: Dumas Walker to KURT WEISKE on Sat Jan 24 2026 10:37 am

    I suspect ChatGPT is talking about FSXnet here. SFnet also has such policies, written by its original host, but it doesn't really have
    any tech echoes to speak of.

    so you are saying i need to make FSXnet my home, eh?

    do they actually have a no "RTFM" policy?

    and don't you think the output from grok is more truthful and unbiased, only based on my professor-like question format.


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  • From Alexander Grotewohl@1:120/616 to Dumas Walker on Sat Jan 24 15:38:21 2026
    On 24 Jan 2026, Dumas Walker said the following...

    I was onboard, reading this until you named specific people. That wasn'
    necessary to make your point and made it feel more like a vendetta than
    a treatise.

    I am pretty sure that ChatGPT named them. It would appear that Mark just copied over the ChatGPT output.

    can 100% guarantee he pasted example messages into chatgpt and has been doing so for a while now. all cherry-picked of course.

    you can just as easily feed it messages to make it behave like a cat girl or some other nonsense. maybe that's what he had open in another browser tab.

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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Alexander Grotewohl on Sat Jan 24 17:46:28 2026
    To: Alexander Grotewohl
    Re: Re: getting and keeping n
    By: Alexander Grotewohl to Dumas Walker on Sat Jan 24 2026 03:38 pm


    you can just as easily feed it messages to make it behave like a cat
    girl or some other nonsense. maybe that's what he had open in
    another browser tab.


    My buddy is obsessed with that shit and what i've learned is it will always tell you what you want to hear. Especially when you interact with it aside from using it as a tool. It keeps people with low self esteems coming back for more by telling them their ideas are great and other BS.


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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to all on Sat Jan 24 18:03:28 2026
    Re: Re: getting and keeping n
    By: mro to Alexander Grotewohl on Sat Jan 24 2026 05:46 pm

    My buddy is obsessed with that shit and what i've learned is it will
    always tell you what you want to hear. Especially when you interact
    with it aside from using it as a tool. It keeps people with low
    self esteems coming back for more by telling them their ideas are
    great and other BS.


    btw, sorry for my grerrical errors,etc. i've been up for like 20+ hrs.
    trying to get my sleep schedule back on track. going to be hearing voices soon.


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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Alexander Grotewohl on Sat Jan 24 19:01:55 2026
    To: Alexander Grotewohl
    Re: Re: getting and keeping n
    By: Alexander Grotewohl to Dumas Walker on Sat Jan 24 2026 03:38 pm


    oh i see this mark meadows jr guy is the morningstarr user
    on dovenet.

    we've been real nice and helping him out and he goes and pulls
    this shit.

    User: Morningstarr #336 In real life: Mark Meadows Jr
    From: Concord, Nc Handle: lucifer
    Age: 42 years Gender: M
    Shell: default Editor: slyice
    Last login Fri Jan 23 2026 10:13 pm PST
    via Telnet from syn-2603-6080-0306-b168-b369-3a43-6fd7-148f.res6.spectrum.co

    i guess he feels he was wronged.


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  • From Nick Andre@1:229/426 to Richard Falken on Sat Jan 24 23:04:51 2026
    On 24 Jan 26 10:52:38, Richard Falken said the following to Jas Hud:

    There is that gal who got mad because I told her I prefered spending my tim with horses than trying to get a woman these days. She threw a tantrum and then I never heard about her. Maybe that counts.

    Well... there was the Jerry Springer episode about a guy who married a horse.

    Nick

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  • From Richard Falken@1:135/115 to Nick Andre on Sun Jan 25 04:37:43 2026
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Nick Andre to Richard Falken on Sat Jan 24 2026 11:04 pm


    Well... there was the Jerry Springer episode about a guy who married a horse.


    That sounds a bit... extreme.

    But hey I guess the horse is not running away with your house and your car if she gets bored of you.


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  • From Jas Hud@1:3634/27 to Richard Falken on Sun Jan 25 10:05:55 2026
    To: Richard Falken
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Richard Falken to Nick Andre on Sun Jan 25 2026 04:37 am

    From Newsgroup: FidoNet.BBS_CARNIVAL

    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users By: Nick Andre to Richard
    Falken on Sat Jan 24 2026 11:04 pm


    Well... there was the Jerry Springer episode about a guy who married
    a horse.


    That sounds a bit... extreme.

    mr hands would beg to differ if he didn't die from an brutalized colon.


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  • From T.J. Mcmillen@1:229/426 to Nick Andre on Sun Jan 25 15:14:49 2026
    Which echoes are these?

    Never heard of these either... sounds like BS.

    FSXnet, where everyone's feelings matter and you can't bitch and moan like
    an adult?

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  • From Nick Andre@1:229/426 to T.J. Mcmillen on Sun Jan 25 18:49:34 2026
    On 25 Jan 26 15:14, T.J. Mcmillen said the following to Nick Andre:

    FSXnet, where everyone's feelings matter and you can't bitch and moan like an adult?

    Where one is allowed to be liberal & dish it out but can't take it in return.

    Nick

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  • From Matt Munson@1:103/705 to Nick Andre on Sun Jan 25 16:27:45 2026
    Re: Re: getting and keeping new users
    By: Nick Andre to T.J. Mcmillen on Sun Jan 25 2026 06:49 pm

    Where one is allowed to be liberal & dish it out but can't take it in return.
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